How it works

Five steps, and a person with you for all of them.

We built this the way introductions used to happen around here — someone who knows both of you thinking it might be a good idea.

  1. 01

    Tell us you're interested

    Fill out the short form or call us. No photos required, no public profile, nothing posted anywhere.

  2. 02

    A conversation, about 30 minutes

    We talk about your life, your work, what you enjoy on a weekend, and what didn't work last time. This is the part the apps skip.

  3. 03

    We verify who you are

    Photo ID and a quick background check for every member, both directions. It's why our members trust the introductions.

  4. 04

    Introductions, one at a time

    When we think of someone, you get a call or an email with the reasons why. If it's a no, it's a no — no explanation needed.

  5. 05

    You meet on your own terms

    Coffee downtown, a walk at Skidaway, dinner on Shem Creek. We suggest places; you pick. Afterward we check in with both of you.

Questions we get asked

Is my membership private?
Yes. Nothing about you is published online and we never share your last name or contact details until you've agreed to an introduction.
How much does it cost?
Inquiring and the first call are free. Membership plans start at $95 a month, and event-only access is $25 per event. We'll walk you through the options on the call — no pressure and no contracts longer than three months.
I'm not very good with computers.
That's fine. Plenty of members handle everything by phone. We'll never make you install an app.
How long until I meet someone?
Most members have a first introduction within two to three weeks. We'd rather wait for someone worth meeting than fill your calendar.
Do you accept everyone?
No. If we don't think we can serve you well, or someone doesn't pass verification, we say so honestly and don't take their money.
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